To every single woman wondering when your “forever” person will arrive—
You are not alone, and you are not forgotten.
It’s natural to have questions when you’re waiting:
“How long, Lord?”
“What should I be doing in the meantime?”
“Who will it be—and will they ever come?”
In moments of longing, doubt, or loneliness, remember this:
God’s timing is not delayed. It’s divine.
⏳ Trusting in God’s Perfect Timing
The desire for companionship is deeply human—and deeply God-given. But so is the invitation to wait well.
“He has made everything beautiful in its time.” – Ecclesiastes 3:11 (NIV)
Our culture pushes us to rush, to settle, or to control the outcome. But when we surrender our timeline to God, we open the door to His best—not just our “almost.”
God is not withholding from you. He’s preparing you—and the one He’s called for you.
🙌 Letting Go of Control
One of the greatest mistakes in singleness is trying to force a relationship instead of following God’s lead.
When it feels like God is taking too long, it’s tempting to:
- Lower your standards
- Chase attention
- Settle out of fear
But God’s Word reminds us:
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6
He doesn’t need our help to write a love story. He desires our trust and obedience.
🪴 Preparation Before the Promise
We prepare for jobs, homes, and other blessings. So why not prepare for a godly relationship?
God will never give us a blessing we’re not ready to carry.
This season is about becoming—not just waiting.
Use this time to grow:
- Deepen your relationship with Jesus
- Heal from past wounds
- Discover your purpose
- Cultivate character, wisdom, and strength
Your waiting is not a punishment—it’s preparation for the promise.
đź•Š Focus on Spiritual Growth, Not Just Romance
Marriage is not a reward—it’s a responsibility. It requires spiritual maturity, surrender, and Christ-centered love.
It’s not about finding someone to complete you—it’s about finding someone who will pursue God alongside you.
Seek someone who:
- Loves Jesus more than they love you
- Prioritizes prayer and purity
- Challenges you to grow in your faith
- Shares a kingdom mindset and vision
“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” – Psalm 127:1
A strong spiritual foundation is essential for a lasting and fulfilling relationship.
🙏 Keep Seeking God in the Waiting
If your future spouse hasn’t shown up yet—don’t pause your purpose.
Keep living.
Keep growing.
Keep serving.
Keep becoming the woman God has called you to be.
“Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.” – Psalm 27:14
Every prayer, every act of obedience, and every tear in the secret place is seen by God.
He is working in your heart and in the heart of the one He’s preparing for you.
đź’¬ A Final Word to Your Heart
Dear sister,
Your singleness is not a season of lack—it’s a season of becoming.
You are not incomplete. You are not overlooked.
You are seen by a God who writes better love stories than anything you could imagine.
When the time is right, He will bring someone into your life who reflects His heart, honors your soul, and walks beside you in purpose.
Until then…
đź’– Live fully.
đź•Š Love boldly.
🙌 Trust completely.
Because God’s timing is never wrong—it’s just right.
A Journey to God 
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